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I have a number of “self-help” books on my shelves that have been a part of my life for many years. One of the early finds was One Door Closes, Another Door Opens by Arthur Pine.
In it, he quotes mostly-famous people who overcame adversity, made a simple decision or had a twist of fate that change their lives. I came across it after making a bad career choice and landing in Cincinnati, Ohio in the mid-90s. I was unhappy in my job and ultimately was fired.
The good that came out of that career decision was meeting my then-partner in a chance encounter in a gay bar. We walked past each other – each thinking the other had said something. We then talked all evening, danced to Kate Bush Running Up That Hill, (our song) and ended the evening by exchanged landline numbers. One door had closed, but another had opened.
But I had already decided to make a move to Chicago to pursue my dream of living and working in that wonderful city. He subsequently followed me there, and we had a number of gerat years together. That was until wanderlust struck again and I had an opportunity to work in Los Angeles radio – with an LGBTQ talk host and a progressive talk radio station (KTLK). Another door had opened for me and my partner. He ultimately chose to remain in the Midwest, and we split up – another door closing.
Ultimately, those “doors closing and another one opening” led me to Palm Springs, and what I’ve been able to create here. It’s the serendipity of life, is it not?
Last week, Larry Eschenbacher, who has led our sales efforts for nearly three years announced he was leaving for a new opportunity in the media world. While it’s a big loss for our small organization, it was time for him to open a new door in his life. I’m grateful for the time he spent with us. He brought a lot of pure enthusiasm to the office each day, made great relationships and even brought us the boys who pushed our bed to 2nd place in the Cathedral City LGBT Days Bed Race!
I wanted to take a moment to share the concept of “One Door Closes, Another Door Opens” and pay tribute to Larry and the many others in my orbit who have brought me here.
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Brad Fuhr, your KGay Desert Guide
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This Weekend in #ILoveGayPalmSprings:
Our Top 3 Events
We’re keeping you updated on the weekend’s Top Events! Read our Gay Desert Guide Weekend Blog for the full run-down. Here’s the top three events:
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1. Matteo Lane
Matteo Lane brings his sharp wit, musical flair, and unmistakable charisma to the Plaza Theatre stage for an added 4th show (due to very popular demand) on Sunday, January 18 at 8:45 pm. John Taylor co-hosted an hour of the KGAY Morning Show with Matteo. Listen HERE. Known for his global sell‑out tours, viral comedy specials, and standout screen appearances, he blends soaring vocals, quick-fire storytelling, and unapologetic authenticity into a performance that feels both electric and intimate.
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2. Patti LaBelle
Patti LaBelle brings her legendary voice to The Show at Agua Caliente Casino Resort Spa Rancho Mirage on Friday, January 16 at 8 pm. As part of her 8065 Tour, the iconic performer delivers an evening of timeless hits and soulful storytelling drawn from a remarkable career spanning more than six decades. From chart‑topping classics to inspiring new moments, LaBelle’s artistry, warmth and unmistakable style make this a must‑see night with one of music’s most enduring stars.
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3. TASTE Beer, Wine & Food Festival
On Saturday, January 17 from 12–5:30 pm, TASTE lands at The SHAG House with an immersive food and beverage festival hosted by On The Mark. Set inside the iconic midcentury home designed by SHAG, this exclusive event offers unlimited samples from 30+ boutique purveyors spanning caviar, oysters, wine, beer, spirits, chocolates and more. Guests receive early access to a limited‑edition SHAG glass and can choose between a general admission session or an elevated VIP experience featuring reserve pours and premium bites.
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Sunny 106.5 is the Coachella Valley’s fresh new radio station. Sunny 106.5 is your go-to for feel-good favorites from the ’90s, 2000s, and more—music so bright, you gotta wear shades. From Mariah Carey and Matchbox Twenty to Adele, Coldplay, Katy Perry, Maroon 5, and hundreds of other favorites, it’s the perfect soundtrack for your day. Enjoy local updates and weather from Patrick Evans, plus friendly, familiar voices throughout the day. Learn more
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KGAY Radio started the New Year with a major upgrade, moving to a stronger, farther‑reaching signal at 103.1 FM as it enters its eighth year serving Palm Springs, the Coachella Valley and the LGBTQ+ community by expanding coverage and adding an HD digital signal for clearer, more reliable listening. Streaming also continues worldwide at KGAYPalmSprings.com.
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This week’s Hot Deal is at Men’s Grooming Spot—perfect for looking sharp as the desert’s in‑season buzz kicks into high gear. For just $25, enjoy $50 worth of premium men’s grooming services in a sleek, spa-like setting. Choose from massage, skin care, hair, waxing, and nails, all designed to help you look cool, polished, and ready to take on the season feeling focused and maybe even just a little spoiled.
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Note: You are limited to one Hot Deal order per household or address every 28 days.
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Get our Visitor Map & Guide – FREE!
Check out the latest edition of the K-Gay Desert Guide Visitor Map & Guide! To help you find everything you need as a visitor or local, we feature the top places for Food & Drink, Nightlife, Shopping, Attractions, Gay Resorts with passes, Dispensaries, and other services. Look for the latest edition at businesses and newsstands around town, or browse it online right here!
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Hunny’s Restaurant & Bar is a women‑owned, family‑run Palm Springs original built on four generations of homestyle cooking. The menu leans into fresh‑baked pies and from‑scratch comfort classics, each dish served with big flavor and even bigger heart. Mondays turn into line‑dancing nights with lessons, great food, and plenty of fun. Hunny’s now brings its warm welcome to the former Grand Central space on La Plaza. Learn more
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KGAY is now at 103.1 on your FM dial.
Make the move on your presets to 103.1 FM!
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The KGAY 103.1 Retro Lunch airs Monday through Friday from Noon–1 pm, with DJ Galaxy (Vincent Corrales) and DJ Eric Ornelas playing an hour of their high-energy throwback mixes. On Sundays, we put all five hours together for the Retro Sunday Brunch from 11 am–4 pm. Perfect party music! The KGAY Sunday Tea Dance with Modgirl airs every Sunday from 4–6 pm (right after the Retro Brunch). All our DJs took honors in the Best of Coachella Valley this year!
This Weekend: Modgirl heads to West Hollywood on Friday, January 16 at 9:30 pm with a Velour Fridays takeover at Roosterfish. She keeps the momentum going on Saturday, January 17 at 10 pm for Paradisco at Kiss Kiss Bang Bang in Los Angeles, before shifting into daytime mode back home on Sunday, January 18 at 10 am with a bright, beat‑driven A.M. Stream at Café La Jefa in Palm Springs.
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To listen to KGAY Palm Springs via Alexa, say “Alexa ENABLE K. Gay Palm Springs SKILL” (include “SKILL”) or manually enable it in the Alexa app or at Amazon. Once enabled, access the station by saying “Alexa, OPEN,” “LAUNCH,” or “PLAY K. Gay Palm Springs.” You can also make special requests, such as birthday shoutouts or song dedications! Learn more
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