Trifecta Update on My British Men
By Josie Goldberg (The Hollywood Times) July 25, 2024
Their reaches a point where one looks within and realizes that sometimes the problem stems from within and not the other love interest involved. I was thinking to myself. I’m really a “Unisex” person, meaning. when I meet these men, I’m a heterosexual woman, I have the urge to merge in the right conditions. Of course, these men are on their A game. But then when I see red flags I go from Josephine to Joseph and there is no going back. I get a little sad, because when the magic leaves, I wonder “What If” I did things different like my friends, family and therapist say, would I get the golden egg? I mean I find men that are tall, handsome, good in the bedroom, age appropriate and fun to be around. I am transparent and honest, and I still believe one can progress through life with romance, business and some sexual pleasures without using or hurting others. What I’m trying to say is that I like fair and good deals. I have some interesting updates on my former flings. I learned one thing and that is always trust one’s intuition, regardless of what they may portray to other females or even their friends in the society.
Mr. James Bond
Mr. James Bond is still single and refuses to speak with me. I speak with his assistant from time to time but from my research via his company profile, Mr. Bond’s career as an independent film maker is stagnant. I saw on his website that he is still raising money and has not released his film that he has been working on for over 10 years. Mr. Bond did not make it to Cannes this year. I saw an updated picture of Mr. Bond and he looked different to me. He is not the handsome Bond I met last year. I guess I have lost my interest, or his lifestyle took a toll!
The Lifestyle Doctor
Surprise, the pilot who was the ex of my friend messaged me and sent me text messages. The doctor wrote to him and said Josie you were right not only does the doctor want my friend as a sugar mama he wants to live off my money too. The doctor asked the pilot to take my friend back because he never realized how much financially the pilot does and said he can’t and would not be able to provide for my friend or want to. So strange for a sub specialist surgeon, right? I called my friend and said, “Now can you admit it? That the doctor picked you over me because he saw you’re a sugar mama and he did not want to provide with an age-appropriate woman as myself and build a relationship that had a chance to make it to the finish line. There is nothing wrong with that but that’s the truth. Some men need a mother figure. I am just not there in my life but who knows if I ever make it big, I also might be a sugar mama. She said you’re crazy, he picked me because I am smarter, skinnier, prettier and know how to sexually satisfy a man and more, so she said she always gets her way. She thinks she is a good manipulator. I let her speak and she said that she had the best 8 months of her life and that I was jealous because she had won him over me. I said really. Your ex sent me all the text messages, on how the doctor called your ex (the pilot) and begged for him to take you back, because he was playing you and he got scared that he could not get rid of you. That’s very embarrassing for a woman of your status. I also saw text messages how you said the doctor made your miserable the last 8 months with his addictions, instability and God knows what else. I also told her that you are 13 years older, and I was like a sister to you, and even let the doctor pleasure me because I knew that would make him happy so you can keep your man from going to another sex bomb. As he craved a younger woman, like me. I was a good friend to you. You just wanted him to use me and throw me away without considering my feelings, and I said it did not help you as he left you in the end. I also reminded her When the pilot dumped you for a younger woman, you were crying day and night, and I was there to help you. I admitted to her that if she just was honest with me and said he wanted her for her money we could still be friends. When she realized her ex had sent me the messages she started to become and say more evil things. I can take competition but fair and square. Yes, the doctor is not going to enter a relationship that he must be the provider for. If he did want me, I told her, he would not jump on top of me in the middle of night and try to “Wrestle Naked” All is fair and love and war, and I feel I was honest with both for whatever the directions our relationships took.
Okay Okay, maybe It was my fault as well. The doctor really pleased me to the point where I have never been in that kind of sexual Euphoria. He was the perfect future husband for me, gorgeous, successful surgeon, no kids, no ex-wife and a real fun generous guy and not cheap which is a rarity. I thought by not allowing him to go flying inside of me, he would have chased me. I was wrong! I have to say that the doctor and I had a long talk on FaceTime after our little encounter and I really respect him as a person. He is very honest, and we are more friends than lovers. He told me he is very attracted to me, but he has more chemistry with my friend, and he can’t help himself. I said really, chemistry for money or for her. I refused to accept the reality. He smiled at me and said Josie, yes, I like that she can be a partner and she is at a different stage in her life than you and I don’t want kids. He also reminded me that he helped me out sexually and said I would be enjoying myself with future partners as I used to have some issues, he fixed that as he is a top surgeon, but not in the traditional setting. My friend always told me he is the best lover she ever had, and I should enjoy him as well. She is a swinger, so she did not mind sharing, but she did not want him doing anything financially or emotionally for me. I told him I was there to see if I could have a baby with him and then realized I could not keep up, and then and we had some laughs. Then he said since I was honest with you, tell me the truth Josie, is your friend like you? I said what do you mean, does she really want to be a 50/50 partner with me? I said she is different than me, I am honest and upfront with you, she says she wants to be a 50/50 partner, but I doubt it. We are all Russians and 50/50 is not in our vocabulary. He said next time you’re in Miami we will hang out as friends. He also added btw I still have sperm that’s alive, I’m not neutered as you wrote in your last article. I thought he was fixed! I guess not. After talking to him I got over it and wished him well with my friend. My ego was hurt but he was honest, and I respected him for his honesty. I can’t be a sore loser; I must accept it and level up. Plus, hearing him talk about money and partnerships got us into the friend’s zone immediately. When we all went out, I didn’t allow the 50/50 mentality, so he stepped up and really was generous with my friend and me. Plus, he was trying to charm me. All calmed down between us all and I really thought he made the right choice to pick my friend and I thought they would make it to the finish line. I even told my friend he is worth the 50/50 program. I was okay with how things evolved. They became a very serious fixture in Miami Beach.
Mr. J
Things took a turn on my last recent trip to Monaco, when I met a guy that resembled the British doctor, who also was extremely tall, handsome, and British. The chemistry the doctor was telling me about with my friend, was what I found with this man named Mr. J. What I forgot to mention in the previous article is that Mr. J Is a former felon. He was incarcerated for six years and has a more serious partner than he disclosed to me. She worked in the prison system in the UK, and I believe through my own research she was the warden of the prison. She is a very nice-looking serious lady, and I can tell she really laid it down for Mr. J and helped him get rehabilitated back into society. Back to the doctor, when I met Mr. J (aka the felon) I had such a strong sexual chemistry, I had never kissed someone for so long and with lots of passion. I knew this man was not for me as he did disclose, he was in jail for some time, but I have never had a such a bad boy so like the doctor said sometimes you can’t help who your attracted to, age, felon etc. I ended up texting the doctor while in Monaco as I felt guilty for fighting the doctor because now, I had my own sexual chemistry, and I told the doctor that me and him never had real chemistry. It was the strippers, alcohol, my desperation for status and the Miami sun. I told the doctor I hope you can forgive me for being so hard on you. I also told him that he was right about enjoying myself with future partners and I told him Mr. J (the felon) was even better than him. The doctor acted strange and said I’m surprised in your behavior” Josie and be careful “. Then he told me he has not been with any ladies in a while. I was in shock, as he was such the ladies’ man. The following week the pilot texted me that he was back with my friend and picked her up from the doctor’s house and that I was right on about the doctor. Then I spoke to my friend or ex friend now and told her the doctor is a nice guy and I consider him a friend. She said he thinks you’re stupid and crazy Josie, he flipped out when he saw my article and social media posts with my dates and romances in French Riviera. It irked him, for some reason. She then said he is not your friend, and I said don’t be jealous, he obviously still wants me if he is annoyed by my other sexual romances and escapades. If he really liked me as a friend, he would be happy for me because I was stuck with him for a minute. I said I learned to be happy for you all, I guess he wants all the women for himself. I told her I don’t care what she says the doctor is still my friend and will always be my friend as he only gave me good times i.e., VIP private stripper dances, great Champagne, gifts, pleasures, sexual healing and most of all CLOSURE. I told my friend that I remember when she went in the shower, the doctor took out his sex toys and told me “Josie I picked your friend over you because she let me use these toys and do whatever I need to do the first night” I said ha, let’s see if you marry her and be a good provider, then I will know I should have given you every part of me. I said Dr with all due respect I don’t think you will marry her or anyone else who lets you fly inside of them before contracts are signed. With me I would never go all the way with you until I am your legal wife, because in real estate we call men like you “Risky buyers” With you I would a need earnest money deposit and some impound accounts to secure so you won’t default on the purchase. I told him I’ll meet you halfway, so you know I’m into you but you’re not getting your way!!! You’re 45 and if you have not made it to the finish line, you are a tough fish to catch. He smiled and knew he could not persuade me. My friend got even more mad, I reminded her that she thought she was smarter than Me and beat me to get the big fish but in actuality no one caught him or ever will for marriage. Just my gut intuition. If you live in South Florida, I will highly recommend him as a great boyfriend or stallion services.
Mr. J is not the gentleman I thought he was. I don’t speak to him or don’t think I will ever. I am very annoyed that when I met him, he told me he was single at 10 pm. At 12 a.m. he was really coming on strong with his charm. I would have never guessed in a million years he was in a serious relationship. Then at 2 am he told me he lives with an old lady. He then told me that he takes care of her financially because she helped him when no one else was there for him. He implied more of casual kind of relationship. Then after some more romance and pillow talk at 4 a.m. he told me that he is in a kind of open relationship. Then some more romance ensued, and he told me he lives with her. (Cuddling, kissing and emotional bonding) Then at 2 p.m. when he realizes that there is no finish line without courtship and he made his final run, he says I’m in relationship.
Honestly, I’m a lady and did not argue with him, because I’m intuitive and I could tell that there was something off in his energy. (Plus, he is an ex-con did and I did not want to disappear) just joking I don’t think he would do that, but a sadness of some sort, I was sad too. There was all this sexual chemistry, but nothing would ever amount for both him and I. I’m not dating an ex-felon and he can’t manipulate me for favors which is a common trait of ex-cons. We remained friends for some time, but a couple of weeks ago I saw that he was in Spain at this beautiful custom home on the water. I asked him if you’re so wealthy, you should have bought me a gift of some sort and apologized for trying to deceive me. I would have forgiven you. Like Hillary Clinton says boys will be boys. Isn’t that what men do when they’re not available? Remember when Carrie Bradshaw the main character from “Sex in the City” had that fling with that European Rich business, he left her an envelope with cash in it when she woke up. No one is saying to leave the woman who holds you down but why do me so dirty? When married or unavailable want sex, why not go to an escort? Why the cuddling, kissing, and pillow talk? According to Mr. J, he implied his “ole lady” is wise, looks the other way, and knows how to take care of him. I said really? You would not be outsourcing if all was so great on the western front. He said just remember I always have the last laugh. I said really…, you don’t know who “Only Josie Knows” is and who she can become!
All and All, the night was amazing, I don’t regret engaging with Mr. J. Sexual chemistry is so hard to find and we did have a blast with my friend at his VIP table and had some laughs. Just like the doctor said when physical chemistry is so strong one can’t help oneself. I am not going to lie when I saw Mr. J, I just liked him immediately. Then when he kissed me, I was gone. I wish things would have turned out differently but they there is a reason why we crossed paths. I really enjoyed his company, and he was a gentleman throughout the night. (Romeo)
I wonder if I will find another Brit who wants to wrestle naked with me. Will I go for the superfecta? Going forward, I will try to find a man that I have the right chemistry with who is also available for me and only me. I do feel bad for Mr. J’s partner from a woman to woman, but this one is on Mr. J, when I met him, he was single. I am trying not to judge others too much. I would have been really upset if we had gone all the way, because that’s satisfying him. I can sleep at night knowing I’m making progress by practicing getting pleasure from these men without giving my all and being safe,
Let me know what you think?
