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“The strong do what then can, and the weak suffer what they must.” That quote—from ancient times– came from Canada’s Prime Minister Mark Carney recently. He was describing the world that Donald Trump is dragging us into, according to a New York Times Op-Ed piece from Leighton Woodhouse.
We in the LGBTQ+ community are just one of the “weak” that this administration and its followers has targeted. Misery loves company, so we have plenty of it as year two grinds on with immigration raids, hate crimes and erasing history as we know it.
On today’s KGAY morning show, John Taylor will be talking with Mr. Palm Springs Leather Pride, Honey Davenport, from the site of the latest atrocity — The Stonewall Inn. Honey joined others Thursday in hoisting the Pride flag back up the flagpole, defying the National Park Service’s removal a day earlier.
It’s just another brick in the wall that’s being removed to erase us from our hard fought victories over my lifetime. But on the horizon is a real fight we’ll be waging again — the fight to save marriage equality. It’s taken a new twist with conservative activists.
In late January 2026, a coalition of over 40 organizations, including Them Before Us, Focus on the Family, and the Family Research Council, launched the “Greater Than” campaign, according to GPAHE, the Global Project Against Hate & Extremism. They are trying to reframe Obergefell by focusing on children’s rights rather than adult equality.
The coalition aims to propose state-level legislative options that could create “test cases” to eventually reach the Supreme Court. Whether Republicans will go along with this strategy remains to be seen. But the courts aren’t weighted in our favor this time, so I’m concerned that this strategy may succeed on a state level, then eventually find its way to the high court.
We must remain strong as these battles unfold. If they sense weakness, we lose. So activism through protesting, voting, running for office and financially supporting our causes are more important than ever.
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Brad Fuhr, your KGay Desert Guide
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This Weekend in #ILoveGayPalmSprings:
Our Top 3 Events
We’re keeping you updated on the weekend’s Top Events! Read our Gay Desert Guide Weekend Blog for the full run-down. Here’s the top three events:
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1. Out at the Fair
It’s a full day of music, community, and celebration for Out at the Fair day at the Riverside County Fair & National Date Festival on Saturday, February 14 — and the can’t‑miss highlight is Bingo Honey! Hosted by Deven Green and Handsome Ned, this high‑energy bingo party hits the stage at 1:30 pm with sharp wit, playful banter, and plenty of surprises. It’s the perfect centerpiece to a day filled with drag performances, dance classes, live music, DJ sets, and a special KGAY broadcast with John Taylor from 3–5 pm. Check our event listing for the full schedule.
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2. Modernism Week
Modernism Week is in full swing now through Sunday, February 22, filling Greater Palm Springs with the architecture, design, and cultural experiences that make this festival such a defining part of the season. With more than 450 events — from neighborhood tours and talks to rare estate access, signature parties, and the beloved Vintage Trailer Show — it remains the ultimate destination for anyone who loves midcentury style and contemporary innovation. A key highlight is the Palm Springs Modernism Show, returning with 140 dealers from Friday–Monday, February 13–16 at the Palm Springs Convention Center, along with a lively Preview Party on Friday evening.
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3. Valentine’s Day
Valentine’s Day is a great opportunity to explore LGBTQ‑friendly local restaurants on our Dine & Sip channel, where you’ll find welcoming spots perfect for date night or a festive group outing. For those craving something bold and theatrical, one eleven bar hosts Exes & Ohs on Saturday, February 14 at 9 pm, a high‑energy Valentine’s showdown starring Vanity Halston, Rock M Sakura, Mariah Paris Balenciaga, and Veronica Halston. And for a sharp, hilarious twist on the holiday, Tina Burner brings Luv Sux to Toucans at 7 pm with live singing, stand‑up comedy, and signature mixes that take you from breakups to makeups. ❤️
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This week’s HOT DEAL is a sweet treat you won’t want to miss: Save 50% and get a $25 gift card to Monster Shakes for just $12.50! Whether you’re craving a towering shake, a swirl of Dole Whip, or a dairy-free frozen treat, Monster Shakes serves up retro flair with modern flavor. It’s the perfect way to cool down, indulge a little, and treat yourself to something deliciously over the top.
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Note: You are limited to one Hot Deal order per household or address every 28 days.
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Get our Visitor Map & Guide – FREE!
Check out the Brand New Spring edition of the K-Gay Desert Guide Visitor Map & Guide! To help you find everything you need as a visitor or local, we feature the top places for Food & Drink, Nightlife, Shopping, Attractions, Gay Resorts with passes, Dispensaries, and other services. Look for the latest edition at businesses and newsstands around town, or browse it online right here!
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KGAY is now at 103.1 on your FM dial.
Make the move on your presets to 103.1 FM!
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The KGAY 103.1 Retro Lunch airs Monday through Friday from Noon–1 pm, with DJ Galaxy (Vincent Corrales) and DJ Eric Ornelas playing an hour of their high-energy throwback mixes. On Sundays, we put all five hours together for the Retro Sunday Brunch from 11 am–4 pm. Perfect party music! The KGAY Sunday Tea Dance with Modgirl airs every Sunday from 4–6 pm (right after the Retro Brunch). All our DJs took honors in the Best of Coachella Valley this year!
Also: DJ Galaxy plays at Vista Grande Resort on Wednesdays & Saturdays from 12–3 pm!
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To listen to KGAY Palm Springs via Alexa, say “Alexa ENABLE K. Gay Palm Springs SKILL” (include “SKILL”) or manually enable it in the Alexa app or at Amazon. Once enabled, access the station by saying “Alexa, OPEN,” “LAUNCH,” or “PLAY K. Gay Palm Springs.” You can also make special requests, such as birthday shoutouts or song dedications! Learn more
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KGAY 103.1 is giving listeners the chance to WIN A PAIR OF TICKETS to Bernadette Peters in concert with The Desert Symphony on Thursday, February 19 at 8 pm. This special evening features the Tony Award winner performing celebrated works by Rodgers and Hammerstein, Stephen Sondheim, Jerry Herman, and more in an intimate, deeply moving setting. It’s a rare chance to hear one of the most acclaimed voices of stage and screen bring timeless songs to life with symphonic richness. Enter to WIN on the KGAY Contest Page
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NOW ON YOUR ALEXA-ENABLED DEVICES: Take the sunshine indoors with the brand‑new Sunny 106.5 Alexa skill — just tell Alexa to “enable Sunny Palm Springs Radio skill” and the brightest variety will be one voice command away at home or at work. Sunny 106.5 is the Coachella Valley’s new home for feel‑good hits from the ’90s, 2000s, and beyond, blending familiar favorites with local updates and weekday weather from Patrick Evans.
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